If initially there is no reciprocity, the patience is just a way to NEschastyu.Chelovek patiently demolishing everything that makes his partner, beginning with a deep hope that it will notice and appreciate later received a heavy blow from the resentment and wasted time.I believe that we should not tolerate something, we only live once and that life should be filled with bright colors positive, rather than shades of gray patience and waiting.
Patience and tolerance can be the path to happiness only where there are mutual feelings and mutual desire to be together.When people try to be together, they are able to tolerate the weaknesses and shortcomings of each other, not to aggravate the points of contention, get sharp corners.Patience is very necessary in the process of lapping to each other at the initial stage of relations.
Like as not quite correct and not completely understandable question - "patience" of what?and only one patient only?and clear your understanding of "reciprocity" - it is only about sex( one-time, long-term)?or the alleged long-term relationship, implies mutual love and respect that could ideally lead to the wedding and the birth of a child? ??Well, okay, that is, from that and assume)))
If we are to establish a family, the patient - is not the way, but a necessary condition and one of the( many) tools to implement the dream called happiness in reality under the name of my( and at the same time - our) future life in the maze nicknamed fate without a map involves choosing what to do in any given situation - to suffer again( anything) or change tactics and use this time a different tool, surprising and revealing itself to the newside and the correct situation of trial and error - it is desirable for the better - remembering at the same time and taking into service response to one or another innovation on your part. .. helps you to God and the fact that in many underdeveloped and have someone completely absentand granted you( as an option - developed independently) - patience and megaterpenie. .. It is important that the patient was not deliberate( sham) or you may be splashed over the edge as an acid and burn all around, or turn into a tumor eats inside. ...........
generalized vopros..i be generalized response) Patience can achieve or get mnogoe.Tolko correct use and to choose the right object for "patience". Not for nothing that goes the saying "patience and a little effort". But is to look at the situation through the eyes of vescheino fog, and a clear understanding of whether you infringe on their own desires? Terminated trying their patience for the sake of some false goal)