Compassion Sense( joint pain) and conscience( together with the knowledge of God, what is good and what is bad, which always exposes us when we depart from the "good") are incorporated in the human originally.Trying to repay them in the pursuit of peace of mind is meaningless, because finding spiritual insensitivity, you are depriving your child of surprising examples.No book about the good aunts will not replace him my mother's charity.The easier you will, if you start to help the unfortunate one who lives nearby.Slowly and regularly.His grateful eyes will protect you from the guilt that you can not help all the sick children on earth.
Sense of compassion and pity, you need to feel and be replaced by MILOSERDIE.Posylaya negative thoughts toward you are careless people do evil, closing feelings in himself( allegedly cherstveya) you inflict evil sebe.Oni you will spread rot from the inside, even if you assume that crushed them.This is not true, what did people do can only transform and make it should it himself.Perhaps the time has come to learn with what a person is not facing just tak.Chrezmerno sparing and compassion you increase the potential of this idea, respectively this situatsii.Ot pity really need to get rid of, but only a replacement. Mercy -
is not just a sense of a transformation of someone else's negativity and his own, because when you learn about someone's grief, it becomes your sobstvennym.Delaya act of mercy you are improving the situation of whom attended to and cleanse yourself from pain andmental stradaniy.Mehanicheski sent data or correct the few material goods situatsiyu.Ostaetsya feeling neudovletvoreniya.Delayte so when experiencing negative.Stop and do not try to dismiss him is your you do not get rid of it.Stay become aware of its presence.Relax refer to God, the Absolute, or the angel of love( in general to anyone in your spiritual authority) if it is not.it should be possible to find it you do just your higher knowing all the "I". Note him to help fix this feeling to heal transform into a positive in lyubov.pochuvstvuyte give it a rough feeling in the hands of an assistant, and in the void space, ask to go love, let eё.Ona always waiting for your razresheniya.Pomolites for themselves and ask to remove the cause of the chuvstva.Vy have to understand that what happens to the other is his lesson you send support you need to realize that what happens will happen to improve the whole environment.Even death is not in vain.They make you think, look, getting better and raskryvatsya.Posmotrite around, what do you respond?Where is the problem?This is your inner world is reflected in us fizicheski.Vsё, often invite love and assistants.They are always happy to help, they just need to be invited.
To adopt a child.No, indeed, have a talk with her husband, explain his state of mind and enjoy a baby adoption( by the way, this is not a one-year leave can).Just then you will know that you really, every day and my whole life doing that one unhappy, abandoned, even devotional miracle mom happy doing.This is the real action out of you every day laughing and happy eyes will see this miracle.And my heart will be easier, and a clear conscience will, and compassion that will get the treasure.
And you do not fight this feeling!This, in my opinion, one of the highest and most noble feelings, given to man.And not necessarily help to be material( especially when it is difficult to understand - a crook in front of you or not).It has long been believed that empathy, compassion - a joint experience of misfortune, grief, grieving enabling ease their burden, to share it with a sympathetic person.So your sympathy - already suffering a huge spiritual support, do not deprive him of it.May God help you!
You are all pictures, videos carry on with the baby, the feeling you still persist after the cessation of lactation, but "fade", check for yourself.Try at such moments to pray for the unfortunate children and ask for their health with God, we all know the thoughts are material.
No need to suppress the feeling of compassion, it is the soul good.But that feeling was not painful and does not lead to despondency over the fact that it is impossible to help everyone to pray every time that someone asks for help.Lord govern!
Not need to fight in this sense, we should not be as cold as the majority of our population, it is not to no good result.You just do not take to heart, and understand that you are not a millionaire to help financially to others, you have your children better help them.And you can help others and not financially, create groups, to carry out any event not be the main thing to start and what to start it you must know better themselves.
Know You're so not alone!All the same.But I am a man, I'm 30
compassion in my childhood very strong.
Physically I am not weak competitor in the past.Sometimes I see how it is on TV a few days because of the head does not throw.Now I have a daughter, she is a little more than a year, compassion rolls.Vizhuna YouTube videos which is how children are treated can not help it.Recently seen on the news as a mom and 3 kids away screaming like a little mom. .. where the week went by me just torn apart. ... Also read as we did with the month-old girl.... + To all wind the, imagine that is where the kid who does not complain about anyone, and no one to protect him, and I understand that the wind the same time but in a sense that I loved where it has just tearing me apart. .. Now almost 3 nightsand I do not take sleep. .. On the one hand I understand that I can not help it or anything, but it is annoying. .. well probably time for me to talk with a psychologist).I feel that there is a duty and a desire to take the child from the orphanage, and I want to do it, I want to try to give happiness, home and family to those who have lost that hope, but then I know that the problem will be! !!They offer a choice of who will take. .. And I just can not imagine how it is possible to choose. .. they are all the children! !!
Head is already exploding from it all, even difficult to escape.
Judging by your words, you have become my mother not so long ago.Perhaps now breastfeeding.This state of "high compassion" is quite normal for you.This hormone.A healthy reaction to the birth of a child.May persist after cessation of breast-feeding for a while.
How to deal with it?And just remember that is full of unscrupulous scams in the world, with great joy that will lay out on the Internet anything, as long as you like noble heart sent them money!Remember that 99% of these pathetic messages - FRAUD!And your kindness provokes these figures to further "feats".Second time mom, I began 2 years ago.I think the hormones already beat)).I know that scams are now a dime a dozen, so I try to go to the source( mother or a fund that collects). - More than a year ago I think it is useful to also know the laws of karma.Helping those in need, you are improving your karma.But on the other hand, those who are in need of assistance, something that karma earned.And it was the best choice of all.